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  • cold shoulder
    cold shoulder
    noun
    a show of deliberate indifference or disregard.
  • cold-shoulder
    cold-shoulder
    verb (used with object)
    to snub; show indifference to.
Synonyms

cold shoulder

1 American  
[kohld shohl-der] / ˈkoʊld ˈʃoʊl dər /

noun

  1. a show of deliberate indifference or disregard.


adjective

  1. Also cold-shoulder (of a sleeved garment) having a portion of each sleeve cut out, leaving the shoulders exposed.

    cold shoulder tops for everyday wear;

    a cold-shoulder dress.

cold-shoulder 2 American  
[kohld-shohl-der] / ˈkoʊldˈʃoʊl dər /

verb (used with object)

  1. to snub; show indifference to.


cold shoulder British  

noun

  1. a show of indifference; a slight

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

verb

  1. to treat with indifference

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012
cold shoulder Cultural  
  1. To “give someone the cold shoulder” is to ignore someone deliberately: “At the party, Carl tried to talk to Suzanne, but she gave him the cold shoulder.”


cold shoulder Idioms  
  1. Deliberate coldness or disregard, a slight or snub. For example, When I said hello to her in the library, she gave me the cold shoulder and walked away. This term, which first appeared in writings by Sir Walter Scott and others, supposedly alludes to the custom of welcoming a desired guest with a meal of roasted meat, but serving only a cold shoulder of beef or lamb—a far inferior dish—to those who outstayed their welcome. [Early 1800s]


Etymology

Origin of cold shoulder1

First recorded in 1810–20; cold shoulder def. 2 was first recorded in 2010–15

Origin of cold-shoulder2

First recorded in 1810–20

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Macron made the call during an international space summit held in Paris this week, which was shown the cold shoulder by several US companies including SpaceX and Blue Origin.

From Barron's Sep. 10, 2026

Other previously widely beloved comedians considered shoo-ins to host award shows now get the cold shoulder from audiences.

From Salon Sep. 8, 2026

Sure, in public, some executives may give him the cold shoulder, but when he’s in small meetings, or dealing with executives one-on-one, he says the vibe is excitement.

From The Wall Street Journal Mar. 28, 2026

“Yellowstone” and “Marshals” star Luke Grimes recently told podcaster Joe Rogan that he’s gotten the cold shoulder after moving to the Big Sky State with his family.

From MarketWatch Mar. 23, 2026

Neal Brose's been giving me the cold shoulder this term, but today he called out, “What'll it be, Jace?”

From "Black Swan Green" by David Mitchell

When he got back to the dugout, the 25-year-old, who made his debut on Sunday, was given the cold-shoulder treatment by his teammates before they broke down and congratulated him.

From Seattle Times Jun. 7, 2022

Jonathan Simkhai’s love of the ruffle is showcased in this oxford-stripe, blue-and-white cold-shoulder button-down shirt with tiered bracelet sleeves.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 13, 2017

So was swapping out the paillettes and bugle beads, the way Riccardo Tisci did at Givenchy, and instead using small circular fabric “mirrors” as adornment on cold-shoulder prairie-queen silk gowns.

From New York Times Jan. 27, 2017

You don’t say that she’s otherwise unfriendly or standoffish, so don’t assume she’s trying to cold-shoulder you unless and until her behavior bears this theory out.

From Slate Nov. 1, 2016

Before Khalil, I planned to cold-shoulder Chris with a sting more powerful than a nineties R&B breakup song.

From "The Hate U Give" by Angie Thomas

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